Pandas! I don’t know about you but, I don’t expect much out of life. Whether it be in friends, love, family, work, myself or whatever else, I have learned to come to terms with the fact that I expect lesser than what I deserve. And for the life of me, I don’t know why that is!
My dear fluffy pandas, this is going to be a super quick post today. And because of the swiftness, I thought I would leave you with a good quote (Featured image).
My thought when I read this is that I miss the intimacies of being in a relationship sometimes. The understanding between two people. The downright psychic powers you possess in knowing what your partner is doing and what each personality trait means no matter how much of a micro-expression it is.
What does it mean to be the best version of yourself? Does it take effort? Will it take much time? The answer to these questions is, undefinable. There can’t be one answer to rule them all, so to speak. Therefore if you think that it will only require a little discipline then that’s how long it will take. The answers are geared towards you as an individual. We all have a certain image in our brains as in how we would like to act. Sometimes our version might be a little skewed to the norms of reality. After all we are all different. Therefore we won’t think the same when it comes to what the ideal traits one should have. But I think the most important point is that at least you are willing to put forth your idea of the best version of you. That you are doing something. And that says enough right there. If you are contented to put your best foot forward then it shows that you want to be a responsive participate as a human being. You are eager to help, love, put others first and sacrifice to make life worth living. Even the tiniest of changes makes a difference in how others perceive you. So don’t think that you have to alter your whole DNA foundation. No! All it means is to be the best person that your abilities will allow. Don’t worry about others. Don’t stress that your not meeting the quota. Just do you! Do what makes you feel comfortable. But do something! Imagine if we all came into this world with the intention of trying to be our better selves. Oh what a world it would be.
Pandas this will be a quick one. But I just wanted to say that today’s theme is about kindness. Let’s all start doing acts of kindness. Tiny, big, medium, you pick it and stick with it. This world needs more happiness, laughter and love. If each one of us could do something, just imagine how much kindness we could spread around.
If someone needs help or is struggling, assist them. Give up your seat on the subway. Let the older lady cut the line at the store. Pick up the dropped cane that belongs to an elderly gentleman. Make sure the little kids get to their destination safe. Don’t rat out a sibling. Give your food to the next homeless person you see. Listen to your friend when she is crying. Be present in every situation. What ever you do, just do something.
your Panda ❤
It’s as simple as that…and yup, that’s all I’m going to say. It’s all about the quote today pandas!
So go create your own story where you are the leading character! Don’t let anyone else write the plot for you.
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Pandas I don’t really need to linger around for this one. I just wanted to share it with you.
Just remember, you are worth more than you actually give yourselves credit for. It’s just sometimes we might need a little reminder. And sometimes we might lose our way slighly because we lack confidence. Which is probably because some idiot made you feel that way. And if that’s the case, send me their number and I’ll deal with them!
Don’t forget, you are and always will be, awesome! Now get out there and do your thing!
Peace, love and always be you
Here’s the thing pandas, I don’t know where the majority of us got this notion that we need everyone and their cousins to like us. We are not in a beauty pageant, nor are we competing to see who can get the most people to adore and gush over our profile pictures on social media. Life’s too fucking short to waste so much time and effort in trying to maintain likeability. If you let it consume you, then you will realise that it’s a full-time job with a family and two mistress on the side. So stop stressing that some people might not like you. Surely, you’ve got to be tired by now. Aren’t you tired? I would be fucking exhausted.